“I love that you love that. And even if you stopped loving that, I’d still love you.” – something I just told to my cat.
I told her that I love that she loves nature. But even if she stopped loving that, stopped loving going outside and looking out the window and being generally curious, I wouldn’t stop loving her.
This is something that I think we need to remind our partners of from time to time.
If you change, don’t feel pressure to continue pretending that who you were is who you now are. If you change, it’s because your’re fine-tuning the intimate details of you, and I love that. And I love that you’re figuring out the things that make you happy. When you’re happy, I am happy, because I love you.